|Feeling sorry for myself!|
Even though for the entire 6 days it took me to get back to Raiatea I was convinced that I would put Sapphire up for sale as soon as I got back, I also realized that once back my perspective would probably change again, and all the arguments against selling her would suddenly have new authority so I have waited a few days to make sure that this what I really wanted to do.
I remembered a book I once read about resolving relationship difficulties called “Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay”, addressing the common dilemma in which someone trying to work out what to do with a difficult relationship seems to end up with lists of equal size in the Reasons to Go and Reasons to Stay columns. The book suggested various tests which could be applied to break the deadlock – and for me and Sapphire the test I eventually applied was a question : would I regret moving on from Sapphire ? – and the answer was no.
|Anchored in Bora Bora Lagoon|
The reality was that I had enjoyed owning this yacht immensely, and had a huge collection of happy and wonderful memories of everything I had ever done on her, right from the very beginning when I was learning to sail, to day sailing on Sydney harbour and the nearby New South Wales coast, to crossing the Tasman and the south Pacific to French Polynesia and even to my latest jaunt out into the Pacific again, and back. But Sapphire was becoming a burden to me, because now I realized I couldn’t leave her idle for months at a time and expect to find things as before. Indeed the inevitable result of a continuation of this pattern of long lay overs and brief spells of sailing would be gradual deterioration in her condition and probably more failures breakages and disablements of various systems on board, increased risk for me, more anxiety and less pleasure. Sailing and owning Sapphire would become a kind of burden rather than a joy. I am disappointed that I never got to Suwarrow or to
and Niue, Tonga as planned but I am satisfied that I made a reasonable attempt at getting there, but it was not to be. It is sometimes said that youre more likerly to regret the things you didnt do than the things you did, but I would modify it slightly and say the things you regret might be the things you didnt even try to do, succeeding not being as important as giving it a go. Or maybe I am just rationalising and trying to justify my own failurre of nerve. In any case, Sapphire needs a new owner. Fiji
So I am going to try and sell her here, and I hope sell her soon while she is still in great shape. I would be happy knowing a keen young sailor bought her and planned to make good use of her sailing these amazing waters or going further afield. I dread the thought of her languishing here for months as mold and corrosion and damp gradually reassert themselves.
I have emailed the Hydrovane people and received useful advice and suggestions in regard to what may have caused those bolts to loosen and to break – I think the whole transom flexes when under pressure from the Hydrovane when it is working hard and this resulted in loosening of the bolts and the when that was made impossible by having a second locking nut applied to each bolt, there was eventual metal fatique and failure. I am going to suggest fiberglass reinforcement of the transom before reattachment of the Hydrovane. Sapphire will then be fully ready to go sailing again with a lucky new owner.
My fascination with the sea and with yachts and sailing is undiminished, and will continue to be a passion. I would not rule out owning a yacht again one day, and certainly I’ll go sailing again somehow. In the meantime however I will return to work in Australia, and later in the year to Ethiopia, and next year for some of the time at least will be working with MSF – Medcin sans Frontieres (Doctors without Borders) I will be free to have holidays other than sailing ones for a while, - such as the south of France for example-but now without Sapphire as a home I might have to start looking for one on land somewhere.. The Next Beginning?